Stop Begging People to Choose You: A Journey of Self-Love and Trust in God

Give yourself the flowers you deserve

In our quest for love and validation, we often neglect the inherent love and worth we possess. Being a beacon of love and service shouldn’t translate to devaluing oneself. If you find yourself continuously offering love without reciprocity, it's time to introspect. We might inadvertently convey that it's okay to receive less than what we deserve.

One of the most challenging relationships that pushed me to prioritize myself was with my father. Our religious differences led to an ultimatum: choosing my faith or him. I chose my faith and, in turn, lost my relationship with my father. Such moments define our character, laying a foundation for how we perceive love, respect, and self-worth. God sometimes places us in challenging circumstances to strengthen our character. However, it's equally important to recognize when we're trapped in cycles of diminishing self-worth. Discerning between enduring hardships for a greater cause and remaining in a toxic situation can mean the difference between a lesson learned and unnecessary heartbreak.

Accepting less than what you deserve screams two things loud and clear:

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